It’s almost back to school time here where we live. With the kids heading back after summer vacation and a break from many of their classmates, I think it’s a great time to remind them of ways to be kind at school. Being kind is a great way to make friends! It also helps them do their part to keep bullying to a minimum. No matter the age of our children it’s important to teach them to extend kindness. Help them see much of a difference a little kindness can make in someone else’s day. This Back to School Be Kind Bucket List has simple ideas to challenge kids to be kind!
Printable Be Kind Back To School Bucket List
You can print this free printable bucket list and hang it up at home, to put it in the inside of your child’s school folder or binder, to hang in their locker, or even offer to print one off for your child’s teacher to keep in the classroom or in the halls at school. Maybe print one to put in all these places as a constant reminder to be kind!
Challenge your child to do one thing off the Back to School Be Kind Bucket List each day and make it part of your daily routine to have a conversation about it after school.
We love to do “Question of the Day” during dinner and asking your child what they did off the bucket list is a great way to get dinner conversation going! You can even adapt the ideas from the Be Kind Bucket List for yourself. Use it for ideas on how to spread kindness at work, where you volunteer, or to your family. Be an example for your kids to see how kindness can make a difference!
How To Be Kind
It is a good idea to talk to kids about how to be kind. Ask them if they have any ideas on how to cultivate kindness in their daily life. See if they can come up with any of the below ideas by themselves.
- Practice Empathy: Put yourself in others’ shoes and try to understand their perspective. Empathy is the foundation of kindness.
- Show Genuine Interest: Take the time to listen actively when someone is talking to you. Show that you care about their thoughts and feelings.
- Be Polite and Respectful: Use polite language and treat others with respect. Simple acts of courtesy can go a long way in fostering kindness.
- Offer Help: If you see someone in need, offer your assistance. Whether it’s a small favor or a more significant gesture, helping others can make a big difference.
- Express Gratitude: Take the time to thank people for their actions or contributions. Acknowledging and appreciating others fosters a positive atmosphere.
- Avoid Judging: Try to refrain from making judgments about others. Everyone has their own struggles and challenges, and kindness involves understanding and acceptance.
- Random Acts of Kindness: Engage in random acts of kindness without expecting anything in return. It could be as simple as holding the door open for someone or leaving a positive note.
- Be Mindful of Your Words: Words have power, so choose them carefully. Speak kindly and avoid negative or hurtful language.
- Forgive and Let Go: Holding onto grudges can be detrimental. Practice forgiveness and let go of negative feelings to create space for kindness.
- Lead by Example: Be a role model for kindness. Your actions can inspire others to adopt a more positive and compassionate approach.
More Ways To Be Kind At School:
- Give a compliment and mean it
- Hold the door for someone
- Practice good manners with everyone
- Invite someone to do something with you
- Accept an invitation
- Leave someone a nice note
- Smile (yes, a simple smile can be an act of kindness)
- Say hello
- Talk to someone new
- Give a small gift or share a stick of gum
- Offer to help classmates who may be struggling with their studies
- Offer to help someone carry something when they have their hands full
- Encourage someone who is struggling with a few kind words such as “I know you can do it if you try again.”
- Take time to really listen
- Say “please” and “thank you”
- Make an effort to be friendly and welcoming to new students
- Be respectful in your interactions with teachers, staff, and fellow students
- Respect and appreciate the differences that make each person special
- If you have extra school supplies or materials, consider sharing them with classmates who may need them.
Conclusion
Remember that kindness is a choice, and small acts of kindness can have a ripple effect, making the world a better place for everyone. I hope you and your family members enjoy these fun ideas for ways to be kind. What do you do to encourage and challenge your children to be more kind? If you have something you want me to add to the list, just give me a shoutout on social media @familyfocusblog!
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