There is not an investment wiser than spending quality time with family. The word “family” is a collective term, in other words, it is not just a couple of individuals living together under the same roof, but a group of people who are connected together and share good as well as bad times. Nobody knows you like your family and your family should be a source of comfort and safety. Family is not always perfect but it is important to build bonds that will get you through the tough times. There are quite a few benefits of family time together and there are some trends and statistics for family time that you may find surprising.
7 Benefits Of Family and The Fruits of Family Time
1. Strengthens Family Bond
Spending more time together and indulging in leisure activities strengthens the family bond. This holds true to all type of activities. They don’t always need to be fancy activities that require a bigger sum of money. Even home-based, low-cost activities such as playing a board game, gardening or playing outdoors have a big impact on the ‘health’ of the family. They make everybody in the family feel closer emotionally to each other, which is always a good thing. These mundane everyday activities are known as a family’s ‘core’ activities, whereas those that require more time, money and planning (special events, vacations) are called ‘balance’ activities. Both of these are deeply related to a family’s ability to better adapt to the changes that come with life. The strengthening of family bonds is one of the important benefits of family time.
2. Family Time Improves Child’s Academic Performance
The academic success of a child is associated with having his/her parents provide help and guidance when needed. The first steps are always the hardest and most important. This holds true especially in terms of studying. If you, as a parent, provide essential guidance through your child’s first academic school years this will have a really positive effect in the future. If you help your kid with school matters, it is more likely for him/her to receive a better education and, of course, a good job in the future. It starts in Kindergarten when you spend time letting your child know that you value education and you expect them to put forth their best effort. Encourage your child to do well. Asking about their day and what they learned helps them understand the importance of learning and to get attention for doing well.
3. Helps Kids Develop Parenting Skills
Time together with the parents helps the kids develop parenting skills. As strange as it may sound, it really is true. Kids learn by example. If you set a good example on how to behave with your children, your son or daughter will definitely remember that and will apply these ‘parenting skills‘ in the future with their children. In fact, you will probably notice siblings treating each other in the ways you treat them. I have heard my daughter tell my son, “Now Leo, would you like it if someone did that to you? Don’t do something you wouldn’t like done to you.”
4. More Family Time Results In Less Behavioral Problems
Youths who communicate more with their parents tend to have less behavioral problems. They are learning interpersonal skills from the way we treat them and others. Communication is the key to the solution of all problems. If you help your children learn to talk through problems when they are little, they will naturally do the same as they grow older. Especially when it comes to kids in their teen years. Everybody knows teenagers go through a lot of hard moments and nothing can make it better for them than having non-judgmental advice from a caring parent. If they know they can come to you with their tricky situations, they will likely act out less and choose better solutions to their problems.
5. Less Violence
Adolescents that have a closer relationship with their parents are less likely to engage in acts of violence. Teenagers are often enraged for various reasons. This period of their lives is usually full of emotions, which are sometimes difficult to control and can often escalate to random acts of violence either against some of their peers or as an act of self infliction. A conversation with a parent and basically any quality time spent together is capable of relieving these feelings of anxiety and anger. Knowing they can turn to someone who cares and that someone can understand what they are going through helps calm them and leave them less frustrated.
6. Less Chance of Drug Abuse
Teenagers who spend more time with their family are less likely to engage in substance abuse. Youths who experience various problems and are, in general, frustrated, are likely to seek ‘salvation’ in experiencing artificial highs. This, they ‘accomplish’ by using unlawful substances like drugs. Needless to say, the use of such substances could have great damage to their health. Teenagers that always have an understanding and helping parent by their side will be less likely to have big problems and will feel neither the urge, nor the need to use such substances. Parent expectations also play an important role and kids do not like to disappoint a parent who they feel is always there for them and has made it clear that drugs are a poor choice.
A lot of who we are as people is developed when we are kids. All we know is our parents and family initially and developing a sense of belonging as a child is a huge benefit of family that stays with you throughout your life. A sense of belonging can lead to a happier child. A benefit of family time is learning that we are cared for and needed and both elements are important to happiness. Families need all their members to be an active giving part of the circle to function at their best.
These seven benefits of family time are probably more concrete than you even expected. Less quantifiable benefits of family include being there each other and helping each other be better in all areas. When we spend time as family cooking, cleaning, shopping, or building, we are teaching our children important skills that will help them function better in life. Which of these advantages of family bonding time surprised you? What are your favorite benefits of family time?