Raising a child has never been a small feat. And the world today is saturated with technology and toys and endless gadgets all competing for the attention of your little ones. As a parent, your kids mean the world to you, so it’s only natural to want to give, give, give. While your children may feel loved initially when we buy them things, little by little the feeling wears off and they are left wanting more and more. Are you stuck in the vicious cycle and wondering how to overcome entitlement attitude?
Not to worry. There are plenty of ways to get your little tikes out of the selfish entitlement mindset. It will take some time, but just a few minutes a day of one-on-one attention can help. One way to not only give them the personalized attention they need, but also raise their vision to a happier way of life, is reading them uplifting stories. Search for stories that teach good lessons. Let’s look at four excellent children’s books that’ll help combat that pesky entitlement attitude and help your kids learn healthier habits like sharing and playing with friends.
4 Children’s Books to Overcome Entitlement Attitude:
P.J. The Spoiled Bunny
P.J. was a selfish bunny who only wanted to do what he wanted to do instead of what his friends did. His self-centeredness leads him to lose some good experiences with his friends. Eventually, however, P.J. realizes that he will be happier if he thinks of others first and decides that he doesn’t always have to have it his way to find joy and fulfillment.
Here is a fun stop motion homemade telling of the story.
The Berenstain Bears Learn to Share
Sister Bear enjoys playing with her own toys, but doesn’t want to share them with anyone. Her mother tells her to share. With some introspection, she realizes that sharing makes everything more fun. She shares not only her toys, but also her friendship and her time. Along with teaching kids to share, this story also teaches some strong Christian values.
Here is a cute video of a dad reading the book to his children.
The Girl Who Had Almost Everything
Colette is a young girl who wants more and more toys. She continually begs her parents for additional toys. Though she has a mountain of toys, she soon realizes that her toys don’t make her happy. Colette has no one to play with, so she feels very empty. Once she focuses on what she can do to help other people, she finds the happiness she has always been looking for. In short, Colette discovers that true happiness comes not from receiving, but from giving.
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Franklin is Bossy
Franklin the turtle always wants to get his way. He orders his friends to do exactly what he wants. In short, Franklin is bossy and impatient. As he becomes more and more bossy, his friends don’t want to play with him because he isn’t fun to be around. After a few days of playing alone, Franklin realizes that he will have more fun with his friends if he isn’t bossy. He apologizes and has fun playing with his friends again.
Here is a fun little reading of the book.
Reading to children is an excellent activity, but sadly it has become less common in today’s media-heavy world. Take some time today to read or listen to one of these books with your kids. Bonding time and good lessons to overcome entitlement attitude await.